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Let me begin by saying how sorry I am for your loss.  I do understand your pain and I feel for you deeply.  In the writing of this letter I hope you will understand that I am here to help.  I have learned a lot in my own experience that I hope will be of use to you.   If nothing else, I hope you see that your feelings and emotions are normal.  I have been there and many others have as well.  You are not alone.  I have tried to gear this section towards parents like us.  Grief is a process that we must go through because of our circumstances.  There is no way around it.  Below are some subjects that you may find helpful.  I have broken this up into sections so you can take it one piece at a time.  Go through these at your own pace.  Everyone grieves differently so there's no wrong way.

Please know that I am always here to help.  If you have a specific question or comment, you can e-mail me.  I will respond promptly.  I check my e-mail daily so if you don't hear back from me with in a couple of days I may not have received it.  Also, there are times when I am out of the office for a few days.  If that is the case, I will responds as quickly as possible.  I pray that God is with you during this time and for the days that lie ahead.

Julie Lane

ATTENTION:  Due to current family circumstances, no updates will be posted to this site until September 2002.  This is to include any and all correspondence as e-mail will not be returned until that time.  Beginning in September we will work to catch up on all e-mail and updates.  Please be patient with us during this time.  We appreciate your visit and thank you for coming.


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